giggly talks and party plans..

had a nice long giggly talk with tinni last night... met ati a couple of days ago.. with the boy in tow...
was thinking about how different we are now.. and yet how 'we' have remained the same.. ati n i have been friends since we were a few months old... tinni n i met as bouncy lil 11 year olds in class 6... and we've managed to stay friends all these years.. *touch wood* i was just thinking about teh fact taht a few days ago i'd written a rather long post bout how horrified i was to learn that ati was dating.. i've always treated her as a baby sister.. and tinni n i have talked each other through more boy troubles than u can count... and now she's been with this guy for two whole years... we've talked each other through exam tensions, parent troubles, relationships, random bummed out days, shopping trips, school functions, picking presents, learning to grow up..

i miss her terribly rt now...

part of last night's conversation was about traits of Gemini men... considering that A, who is the third wheel in our friend circle.. AND cd.. tinni's bf, AND sap.. who again is is a close friend to both of us.. are ALL %&^$*^$%* geminis!!! and all these boys have driven us up more walls than we can count... its damned near impossible to have a straight, serious conversation with them.. try and introduce a discussion thats serious.. and you can be sure that they'll turn it around to something else so soon u won't know WHAT hit you.. come to think of it.. i have rather a deluge of gemini men in my friend circle... even aks, a dear friend from college.. is a gemini..and NONE of these guys can actually make up their minds about ANYTHING.... case in point..?? aks. ive heard his opinion on virtually EVERY woman in college.. and counselled him through a rather looong list of crushes and almost- girlfriends.. A's like taht too... infact... ive had rather ridiculous conversations with BOTH these guys which began with a discussion about what happened on a date with girl 1 and ended with whether a coffee with girl 2 would be construed as a date.. tinni tells me that cd isnt much better.. AND i have this standard line i almost always end up using with sap.. "main agre ki bolti hoon tu lucknow ki sunta hai!"
geminis i tell you... but they make the most amazing frenz.. they'll inevitably make you laugh no matter how blued out u may be.. and they'll listen to you... and remember stuff that u may have said years ago to them n they'll use the same line on you... do they also have alternate memory storage along with that second mind???

AND....
i've been making birthday party plans in my head... i'm FINALLY going to turn 21 soon... but ma n pa havent yet let go of the "no booze in the house" rule nor are they planning to give up their cozy home for one measly night so their firstborn can have a nice parrrrttaayyy... watever i do.. have to keep in mind that parents AND the brats.. will be home..
sssiiiiggghhh... i SO want a nice loud party with plenty of booze and dancing... to celebrate the fact that i'll finally be an age when my parents can NOT say that i'm too young...

i really want a big party.. invite pretty much everyone i've ever been good friends with.. like.. "this is to invite you because you have touched my life at some point and had an impact on me.. and as i bid goodbye to my childhood i would want you there at the celebration"... as senti as it may sound... i actually sat down to count the number of people who i would REALLY desperately want at that party... adding a few who would ideally fall into that description but i havent met them in years.. ofcourse teachers and parents are NOT counted in the list.. and it comes to about 20 people that i REALLY REALLY want there. and a further 15 or so who should ideally be invited... add the few random friends who have to be invited BECAUSE they exist in the same circle as the rest.. and u have about 50 people in the guest list... except that a lot of the "must haves" aren't even the same city anymore... n that includes tinni, A, sap, owl, and a few more...
wish they could all be there..

like i'm even having the damned thing...
could someone tell me a good way to convince parents that letting a whole bunch of people loose in thehouse with booze in hand is NOT a bad idea after all...???