Monday, July 11, 2011

please check this out

SaveLIFE Foundation (SLF) is a non-profit, non-governmental organisation focused on enablingBystander Care, the immediate care that Police and public can provide emergency victims, especially those of road accidents, to enhance their chances of survival. This becomes critical when you consider that India does not have a well-established Emergency Medical Services (EMS) system to bring pre-hospital care to victims, lack of which leads to thousands of deaths by the road side every year and gives India the dubious distinction of being world number one in road accident deaths. Even in a scenario where the country may get an EMS system some day, Bystander Care will continue to play a key role in saving lives given the massive traffic congestion across most of our cities, which will hinder quick movement of EMS vehicles.

Over the past 2 years, SaveLIFE has trained over 2500 Police first-responders in Delhi leading to a significant enhancement in survival rate of accident victims due to administration of basic emergency care to victims. Our immediate goal is to establish a community based and community driven emergency response service that will see over 8000 public volunteers in Delhi being trained in Basic Trauma Life Support skills and connected through a dedicated call centre so that they can be mobilized as first-responders in the event of a medical emergency, especially road accidents.

SLF is registered as a public charitable trust under Sections 12AA & 80G of the Income Tax Act, 1961.

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Thursday, June 09, 2011

girls shouldn't be allowed to have love marriages under age 21?????

apparently thats what a bench of the Karnataka high court thinks.. the 2 judge bench actually recommended that the parliament might consider looking into amending the Hindu marriage act to ensure that girls under 21 can't have love marriages!

“ In our opinion, the girls below the age of 21 years are not capable of forming a rational judgment as to the suitability of the boy, with whom they are in love. It is relevant to mention that those girls, who are suffering from hormonal imbalance easily fall prey to the boys and fall in love, marry and repent at leisure,” the judges said in an order last month.


Justice K Bhakthavatsala and Justice K Govindarajulu stressed that the Parliament had not taken into account love marriages when the Bill was introduced. “ Since the Hindu Marriage Act does not deal with love marriages, in our view, it is high time that the Parliament take note of the sufferings of such girls and their parents and amend the law suitably,” the judges said.

They suggested that run- away marriages of girls under 21 be declared void or voidable.


as a student of law, i'm in shock..
1)a HIGH COURT bench is recommending that the parliament consider restricting the right of an adult to choose their life?? even while allowing parent/guardian/community to force a girl under age 21 to marry someone "arranged" for her? the high court seems to have forgotten that a consenting adult is capable of contract and the law cannot interfere in such contracts except in rare cases.
2). the HIndu marriage act does not at any point define who is allowed to arrange the wedding.. all it says is that "marriage" must be duly solemnised according to ritual. Nowhere in its 29 sections does the act mention anything about "love" or "arranged" marriage. all it requires is that two adult hindus solemnise the marriage according to the rituals and customs of either party. i fail to see on what basis the court has found it self capable of making such a ridiculous recommendation for legislative change..
3) it ominously highlights the fact that even our higer judiciary is still caught in the patriarchial framework where a girl is a "possession" to be carefully tended and handed over..

what i fail to understand is that how the same judiciary who allows rapists and molesters to roam free, suddenly develops such moral principles of control when the girl decides to take matters into her own hands rahter than be made into a victim.. if u really want to recommend changes, how about a change in the definitions of bigamy, maintenence provisions for estranged/abused women, rape laws, punishments for assault...?? out of the thousands of legislatons floating around in this country, what on earth made the court take notice of the humble little HMA??

Wednesday, June 08, 2011

background scores to life..

Santana- Just feel better..


I know, I know, I know
Part of me says let it go
Everything must have a season
Round and round it goes

And every day's the one before
But this time, this time

I'm gonna try anything that just feels better
Tell me what to do
You know I can't see through the haze around me
And I do anything to just feel better


I can't find my way
God I need a change
And I'd do anything to just feel better
Any little thing that just feel better


I'm tired of holding on
To all the things I ought to leave behind, yeah
It's really getting old, and
I think I need a little help this time
 
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Friday, June 03, 2011

bah humbug!

call me grinch if you will.. but friends who are in serious relationships are no fun at all.. they always have their own thing going, or are distracted with their phones the whole time, or ditch you to spend extra time with their partner, and make you feel like a heel for asking them to ditch the partner and hang out for a bit with you instead..
:P


Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Women, jails and kanimozhi

So the media and politicians have suddenly discovered that the conditions in Indian prisons are appalling and it is not safe or comfortable for women to be in jail.. all because Tamil nadu’s little princess Kanhimozhi is currently residing in Tihar jail. Not counting the fact that she is in one of the high security ‘VIP’ areas of the jail and protected from the slightest bit of abuse or discomfort because of her high political connections, congress president Sonia Gandhi suddenly decided to declare that she is “worried” about kani’s safety in the prison…


I decided to skip the rest of the 9 ‘o clock news after 10 mins of listening to a rather nonsensical debate on NDTv abouy whether denial of bail to a woman for such a crime was a bad move on the court’s part.. politician Renuka Chowdhry, Sadia Dehlvi, activist Madhu Kishwar and senior advocate KTS Tulsi were the talking heads on the panel tonight.. thank god for the latter two because the comments made by the first two put me in serious danger of getting a heart attack due to sheer indignation..

Comments like “it’s not safe for women to be in jail”, “the court is obliged by law to give bail to women” and the gem of the lot “well there are other women in jail but they are there for more serious crimes, kanimozhi has only a charge of corruption against her”

What these people did not seem to get was that they are simply reinforcing the gender stereotypes by insisting that the sex of the accused should be more important than the crime committed.. The enormity of what kanimozhi is involved in was dismissed in the interest of faux- sympathy for jailed women..

even more annoying was the fact that they seemed entirely oblivious to the fact that there is no law that makes it compulsory or even obligatory for a court to release a woman on bail.. What S.437 of the CrPC states is simply that the court “may” direct that the person accused of a crime which is punishable by life imprisonment or death penalty be given bail if such a person is under age 16 or a woman or is sick or infirm.

There’s nothing in any law in the country that says that women cannot or should not be thrown in jail if they’ve done something to deserve it.. and the scam that kani is involved in is much more dangerous for india’s security than any murder or terrorist activity.

In 1973, justice Krishna Iyer had clearly said that the Supreme Court considered economic crimes to be detrimental to the security of the state, and a person accused of an economic crime did not deserve gentle treatment. (sure he said this in respect of probation given to a smuggler, but the essence of the sentiment remains the same)

Apart from the obvious legal issues I may have with the statements made on tv today, they indicate a deeper malaise. That is the depiction of women as frail creatures who need special protection and are too delicate to even be given the correct punishment of they commit crime. It’s this faux-protectionist attitude, smacking of chauvinism that really strikes a blow against the self esteem of every woman who has wanted to be taken seriously.

How is it that supposedly responsible and liberated politicians and social activists can proclaim on national television that women are too vulnerable to be punished? Renuka Chowdhury today brushed aside Madhu Kishwar’s comment about how more than one woman politician has undergone incarceration in the past. She even managed to keep a straight face as she claimed that Sadhvi Pragya, currently in jail for involvement in terrorist activities, was fair game because terrorism was a far more serious crime.

I said a rather loud thank you to Nidhi razdaan , the anchor, for pointing out the fact that sexist arguments to demand protection for a woman ultimately caused incalculable harm to women’s rights movements.

Ironically, she quoted another UPA ally Mamata Bannerjee who had proclaimed during one of her endless protests that she stood for the causes she espoused and demanding special treatment as a woman was an insult to her dignity.

I totally agree.

Monday, May 23, 2011

a walk to remember

i adore this movie.
absolutely, completely.

and yes i know its a teenage version of a mills and boon with a preachy ending. thank you very much. i adore it anyway..
the story, the magic of finding who you really are and what you really want from life..

not least for the amazing soundtrack. its got sooo many from my favorite songs list.. :



 learning to breathe.. switchfoot






its gonna be love



something about you...



dancing in the moonlight..







only hope .



cry- mandy moore



you- switchfoot



and the one song that i can listen to no matter what mood i'm in..
dare you to move..... switchfoot




this is probably the ONLY movie whose entire soundtrack i remember... including all the hindi movies i love to watch... i was asked a while ago if there was any band/soundtrack that i really loved... i can't believe i didnt remember this one right away... i watched this movie again today.. purely for the music, and realised that this right here was a soundtrack i'll still adore when i'm 80...