apparently thats what a bench of the Karnataka high court thinks.. the 2 judge bench actually recommended that the parliament might consider looking into amending the Hindu marriage act to ensure that girls under 21 can't have love marriages!
as a student of law, i'm in shock..
1)a HIGH COURT bench is recommending that the parliament consider restricting the right of an adult to choose their life?? even while allowing parent/guardian/community to force a girl under age 21 to marry someone "arranged" for her? the high court seems to have forgotten that a consenting adult is capable of contract and the law cannot interfere in such contracts except in rare cases.
2). the HIndu marriage act does not at any point define who is allowed to arrange the wedding.. all it says is that "marriage" must be duly solemnised according to ritual. Nowhere in its 29 sections does the act mention anything about "love" or "arranged" marriage. all it requires is that two adult hindus solemnise the marriage according to the rituals and customs of either party. i fail to see on what basis the court has found it self capable of making such a ridiculous recommendation for legislative change..
3) it ominously highlights the fact that even our higer judiciary is still caught in the patriarchial framework where a girl is a "possession" to be carefully tended and handed over..
what i fail to understand is that how the same judiciary who allows rapists and molesters to roam free, suddenly develops such moral principles of control when the girl decides to take matters into her own hands rahter than be made into a victim.. if u really want to recommend changes, how about a change in the definitions of bigamy, maintenence provisions for estranged/abused women, rape laws, punishments for assault...?? out of the thousands of legislatons floating around in this country, what on earth made the court take notice of the humble little HMA??
“ In our opinion, the girls below the age of 21 years are not capable of forming a rational judgment as to the suitability of the boy, with whom they are in love. It is relevant to mention that those girls, who are suffering from hormonal imbalance easily fall prey to the boys and fall in love, marry and repent at leisure,” the judges said in an order last month.
Justice K Bhakthavatsala and Justice K Govindarajulu stressed that the Parliament had not taken into account love marriages when the Bill was introduced. “ Since the Hindu Marriage Act does not deal with love marriages, in our view, it is high time that the Parliament take note of the sufferings of such girls and their parents and amend the law suitably,” the judges said.
They suggested that run- away marriages of girls under 21 be declared void or voidable.
as a student of law, i'm in shock..
1)a HIGH COURT bench is recommending that the parliament consider restricting the right of an adult to choose their life?? even while allowing parent/guardian/community to force a girl under age 21 to marry someone "arranged" for her? the high court seems to have forgotten that a consenting adult is capable of contract and the law cannot interfere in such contracts except in rare cases.
2). the HIndu marriage act does not at any point define who is allowed to arrange the wedding.. all it says is that "marriage" must be duly solemnised according to ritual. Nowhere in its 29 sections does the act mention anything about "love" or "arranged" marriage. all it requires is that two adult hindus solemnise the marriage according to the rituals and customs of either party. i fail to see on what basis the court has found it self capable of making such a ridiculous recommendation for legislative change..
3) it ominously highlights the fact that even our higer judiciary is still caught in the patriarchial framework where a girl is a "possession" to be carefully tended and handed over..
what i fail to understand is that how the same judiciary who allows rapists and molesters to roam free, suddenly develops such moral principles of control when the girl decides to take matters into her own hands rahter than be made into a victim.. if u really want to recommend changes, how about a change in the definitions of bigamy, maintenence provisions for estranged/abused women, rape laws, punishments for assault...?? out of the thousands of legislatons floating around in this country, what on earth made the court take notice of the humble little HMA??
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http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2011-06-19/india/29676266_1_mobile-phones-bans-unmarried-girls
I wonder what you'll say about this!!
Kanak
Well anne do ur best by blogging our loud.
Aah.. this is a an example of how these 'cu$t0d!@ns' of law themselves seem prejudiced, their motives questionable.. I bet one of their daughters ran away with someone 0r perhaps, they are tired of a lifetime of such nuisance cases which too seems less probable. 3rd option - they are plain stupid.
either ways, its coming from their life-experiences i.e regulators of the system themselves taking biased calls on things what they perceive, but is not in actual.
Wat these 2 poor creatures are suffering from & are blissfully unaware about is - Framing i.e narrow-mindedness (colloquial) & confirmative bias. am not a psychology student but i wish lawmakers took psychology-101 & understand their thought processes.
Wondering wat would a perfectly non-biased but undetatched judge be like. Nvm its not gonna occur.
am jus fcking arnd with your heads ^_^
Keep posting.
Anne u r cent percent correct. For instead i'm personally suffering from this stupid decision which the court made. Even i believe u-r-right also logically right SAID as "I bet one of their daughters ran away with someone" bcz of this court decision we both (me &my girl) have to wait for 2 more years coz she just turned 20 last month. In her home her parents came to know our love and this is a second time after they warned her to discontinue wit love. They pretending, abusing and threatening very badly to quit on this. Since they (almost all parents in india) not happy wit the cast. She just called me after we caught. And she was very much clear to leave her house. Before taking her i just called to my cousin who is himself a lawyer. And was shocked from wat he said. He just said she should turn (cross?) 21 to do love marriage! Till that time i knew age limit is 18 for girl 21 for boy. I searched net and i came to know that after this courts stupid decision in around 6 cases they told girls to go to her parents after the marriage. I don't understand in wat basis they made such decision? I request someone to help on this. I can wait somehow but for others who also suffers for this i'm willing to help them. Is there any way to question against court decision ? Do we have rights to ask court how and on wat base they made this decision? Why we hav to keep quite on this unethical decision which wil really play messy on lots of peoples life ? My mobile number 9611997667
Anne u r cent percent correct. For instead i'm personally suffering from this stupid decision which the court made. Even i believe U_R_PRETTY *_* also logically well said as "I bet one of their daughters ran away with someone" bcz of this court decision we both (me&my girl) have to wait for 2 more years coz she just turned 20 last month. In her home her parents came to know our love and this is a second time after they warned her to discontinue wit love. They preventing, abusing and threatening very badly to quit on this. Since they (almost all parents in india) not happy wit the cast. She just called me after we caught. And she was very much clear to leave her house. Before taking her i just called to my cousin who is himself a lawyer. And was shocked from wat he said. He just said she should turn (cross?) 21 to do love marriage! Till that time i knew age limit is 18for girl 21 for boy. I searched net and i came to know that after thiscourts stupid decision in around 6 cases they told girls to go to herparents after the marriage. I don'tunderstand in wat basis they made such decision? I request someone to help on this. I can manage somehow my matter but for others who also suffers for this i'm willing to help them. Is there any way to question against court decision ? Do we have rights to ask court how and on wat base they made this decision? Why we hav to keep quite on this unethical decision which wil really play messy on lots of peoples life ? My mobile number is 9611997667 (banglore)
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