i'm pissed off

it is NOT a nice thing to tell an unsuspecting friend that u have a crush on them and then sulk coz they turn you down..

it is NOT nice to cut them out of plans just coz your ego cannot take it..

and it is definitely NOT nice to remind them everytime that you didnt wanna meet them/talk to them coz you havent gotten over the embarrassment/ hurt from being turned down.. and therefore had asked other friends to not invite them or so much as tell them that youre all meeting up...

and to those friends who actually collude in these ridiculous plans.. youre really not being nice either.

just coz i'm not in love with you does not mean that i dont ever wanna see your face again.. if i did.. that fact would have been made amply clear.

its really mean to make ME feel guilty for "not respecting your feelings" the fact that your name is not up in this blog post means that i do care about your feelings.. i just dont wanna go out with you.

i fail to see why I am the bad guy here if YOU cant get over a crush.

 you've really hurt me.. you AND our so called friends who agreed to stoke your ego at the cost of my feelings.