"so.. why are you still single?"
i THINK it was meant as a random question.. possibly even a flattering one.. but somehow it hurt something inside... is it really so bad to be single?? i mean.. its been a while since i've been single but why is it so weird that i've kept the status??? i guess its flattering if ppl wonder why a "girl like me" is still single.. atleast i think they mean to be.. but why is it so necessary?? whats wrong with NOT wanting any entanglement?
recently, at a friend's birthday party N practically dragged me over to talk to some guy who apparently told her that he thought i was nice.. introduced us and then left me alone with him... that was embarrassing enough but to make it worse she gave me quite a talking to coz i didnt talk to the aforementioned guy for more than 5 minutes before escaping back to other friends.. n she was like.. how r u going to get over your past if u freeze out every guy who'se interested??
my question is... WHAT is so wrong with being single??
should i HAVE to hook up with the next guy who comes along???
why is single automatically linked to lonely?
why do people assume that my decision to keep this status means i'm not over my past?
no freakin way....
someone told me this line years ago... "the easiest way to get over someone is to get under someone else.."
I've never agreed with it..
and i dont want to have to prove my happiness by hooking up with any guy just so my friends stop worrying bout my sanity...
i'm fine ppl..
its not like my life and my happiness depends on having a boyfriend..
n thank you.. i love you for all the worrying you do about me..
1 comment:
hey, its perfectly ok to be single, i've been doing it for a while now. but when you're single, it doesn't mean you can't have fun! so stop getting all defensive, and let your guard down!
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